Lately I've begun to question some things about myself and just call up some old issues I have with me in general. I wonder if there's some kind of circumstance involved or if its just me that's not trying there. I can tell that I'm not who I want to be, I'm not even doing what I want to do, and I have no way to help it.
I came to San Antonio this summer to get a job, go to school and just be out of the house, I only appeared to have done one of those things right. And that was the last one, which technically only involved existing.
Why do I feel like I need to hide things from the people around me, I find myself not being able to tell them things I usually would. Even the people I tell everything, I am finding it harder and harder to talk to. I know depressions not easy to get rid of, and I know it can last a long, long ass time, but do I have to tell everyone around me what's going on. More importantly do I have to tell my parents?
I don't want to because I know what at least one of them will say. I know that my dad will just say I'm full of shit and write me off as lying. It's what he does when I say anything he's unwilling to accept or when he just thinks whatever I am saying is too convenient to be true. Yeah, and I know how convenient feeling like you'd rather not exist is.
People always say when you lie that it makes people not believe you, What about when people have been calling you liar all of your life?
It makes you just want to lie, it makes you just want to prove them all right because what does it matter, you're nothing but a liar to them anyway.
It seems that for all of the truth I tell it never is enough to keep me from being called liar, and for all of the trust I place in others, I never seem to be able to get any in return. I bottle all of this up, I just hold onto it and it pisses me off to the point that I want to fucking scream at someone. I'm tired of being Mister—Fucking—Nice—Guy because they don't give a rat's ass. All it gets is that shit thrown back in your face.
I sat on the phone tonight and I couldn't even talk about how I really felt, because I figured it wasn't important, and it really isn't because it makes no real difference to anyone but me. I'm pissed off because my dad calls me, not to see how I am and talk, but only to bitch. He never just calls and says how are you. And before one damn person mentions how I probably never call to do the same
, when I did I still got the same shit that was just him complaining.
I hate this city more and more with each passing day, its unsophisticated, its just ass-backwards. I used to think it was cool and cultured, not its just like being in Mexico Junior, there's nothing original about this place. It's just here.
I hate how I am so frightened to hurt someone, I hate how it makes me seem weak, and I especially hate how the second statement of this paragraph is true. This week has been hard, its been terrible in that way. The only thing good I can say about it is something I never saw coming: quality time with my step-mom and hanging out with CJ some.
Besides that I feel like more and more of the things around me are falling apart. When I can't tell Kay what the matter is I know I'm fucked up. What's worse is I felt like I wanted to cry, don't know why, but instead of telling her I needed to go because I wasn't feeling good, or that I wanted to talk about it, I just pretended I was okay.
I don't deserve to hurt like this, no one deserves it. It's like there's a deep pain in my chest. Like something missing and I'm almost reminded of what I said in Faulty Souls. It seems more and more like we're manufactured with a defect. I think it would be better not existing at all rather than trying to figure out what's wrong with me and being so lonely in the mean time.
I need sleep now, I'm not even fully able to function here.